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Rage Against Suburban Zombie-ism Saturday, May 03, 2008  Adventures in Online Dating #60: Decision Reaffirmed - Part Deux!MSN convo edited for length. Most was kept just to make a point, a dragged out one at that... LOCALDUDE: hi STEPHANIA: Do me a favour and lose my number. L: why being rude? S: I'm rude? That's not the reason why I'm "rude". I didn't appreciate those subsequent texts that you sent me. L: whatever..........you are sensitive now S: Um, no. I know when I'm being completely disrespected. And those txt were completely presumptuous. L: you are fucked.......last week you were cool with chatting about anything and now u are not. you have issues S: That's not it at all. I was under the impression that we were gonna legitimately meet up for dinner. Then I get this dirty txt msgs?? I don't think so. I would've NEVER met anyone under those circumstances, so I'm not sure why you think you're so special. L: hahah. you must be on something....am i talking to the same person S: I know who I am. And I know that I cannot put up with this. L: i am shaking my head. are you ok S: I think you need to reevaluate how to treat women. L: ok....lets get some things straight.....i wanted to take you out for dinner but i couldnt do it.....i wanted to meet you another time......and now because i send you a text that i wanted you.....and wanted to meet you after a rough day......u take offense...fuck you S: Go fuck yourself 'cause that's all you're gonna get! And with this attitude, I doubt that you'll get ANY!...Can you not see that you're doing a complete 180 from the person on the phone. I would NEVER consider swearing at someone who I stood up! L: not at all...i had to work late tomorrow..and wanted to plan another day with you and you come back with this...all i know is that i wanted to take you out......i am sorry for not meeting yesterday...work was bullshit....and now...i try to say hi..and you get all crazy................damn.....i dont know what to say S: I am not crazy. AGAIN, I am not the one who started with the swearing and disrespectful language. I thought that you wanted to legitimately meet up, but after receiving those txt it was completely obvious to me, that you just want to fuck someone. I am a very understanding person, I understand that you cannot control staying at work. But did it really hafta follow with those messages? L: ok....u are freaking out..... S: Nope. Not at all. L: dude...relax.....no one is perfect.............i was thinking about you....it might have been the best of terms...but i thought it was still all good......but if you are like this..damn.....never mind S: Pls read your responses vs. mine and then tell me to relax. I'm actually really glad that we never met. L: i'm good babe.....i never had this before...damn....just relax............ S: I think you may have a problem with your temper. L: you are the one freaking out. once again...are you ok S: Nope, if I had a webcam, I'd turn it on right now just so that you can see that I'm just sittin' here. Calm, typing away. Trying to talk sense into you. L: i was going to ask you for lunch tomorrow..after all the shit this week..what happened to you S: Well, apparently I hit a nerve, so there's obviously something wrong. You're talking defensively and trying to blame-shift. L: yeah true...i am trying to figure it out...............i didnt think i am that bad....some dirty texts gets to all this....damn.........i wanted to have brunch...damn.. S: Well, I don't think dirty text after standing someone up (not your fault, fine) is an appropriate response. Again, a voicemail would've been better/trying to catch me on the phone. But I guess we obviously had different expectations. This is fine. L: so now you getting to the real reason.......why didnt you just tell me that S: Can you not read?? HELLO??!! L: the fact i sent you a text as opposed to a text.....dont hold that against me S: OMFG! *shakes head* L: i was respectful...i told you that i was working late..... S: Yeah, that was FINE. L: and when i got home..... S: It was GOOD. L: i wanted to fuck...i was horny....damn...i know bad...but still... S: What made you think that I wanted the same thing?? L: i didnt........it was a tough day...i just wanted to fuck........i know it might be bad..but i was thinking of you..and after the day i had....i would have...so..dont freak at me...that is what pisses me off...so just chill S: I'm not pissed, I'm just annoyed. L: i had to work late....i make a reservation for tomorrow after....and was hoping were online.....i wanted to do brunch tomorrow....and you freak out....that is not so cool...it really isnt...i am very disapointed S: Don't try to make me feel bad, please. L: i am not...just because we talked dirty...and stuff.....and i send one dirty text.....u hold that against me...come on...just relax.... S: Stop telling me to relax, will you? L: ok.....just disapointed....i busted my ass yesterday at work......it was brutal and i was pissed....they dragged me to work late...i told them but i had to stay late......hated it...and now i hear this.....i hope you see my position S: OMG. You working late has absolutely NOTHING to do with this. NOTHING. I would've been happy to meet up with you on another day. However, after I received your inappropriate msgs, I was just turned off...You're very selfish. L: ok cool.....but no need to be so dramatic...i wanted to meet you but i am selfish now S: AHH. You're the worst arguer ever. L: i am laughing because we did want to meet and have sex S: Tell you what. You delete me off your cell phone/MSN list and I do the same. And we pretend this never happened. How does that sound? L: what is up with you...if you are upset about something that is cool but dont take it out on me S: I NEVER WANTED TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. You're completely presumptuous. Completely. L: steph...are you alright...we chatted....and were trying to hook up for a dinner date...and you react like this S: That's right, you're the victim 'cause you had to work late, it was completely terrible, then you came home and had an erection, & you wanted to take it out on me. L: hello...some would think that is cool.........being attracted to someone is not a crime but if you get all up tight about it...i understand... S: I am not reacting. I am thinking level-headedly. L: no you are not...but its all good.....i just dont want you to freak out......... S: I'm going to save this conversation and post it up on my blog 'cause it is so WONDERFUL! For the last time, I am not freaking out. I am just in complete disbelief at how a mother fuckin' 35 year-old can be soo completely clueless! L: please do....because...i cant figure it out...one dirty text did that to you......damn S: Well, it wasn't only dirty, but it was utterly inappropriate - again, considering the situation. L: anyways, i dont want to argue....we are not for each other...but i do wish the best for you......be good and be safe...... S: You stood me up and "ARE YOU HORNY?" is your apology? Sorry, but that is not acceptable. L: i was home............damn......ok...u dont know my personality S: Yeah. And I saw more of it during this chat. I'm glad that I saw this side of you. L: if you cant accept me thats cool S: Well, someone who gets this defensive this easily - NO, I cannot accept that. Someone who tells me to "relax" and "chill out" when they don't know who I am and consider my position. No, I cannot accept that. L: hahah...try to justify it all you want but i didnt do anything bad....one bad text just not justify that...you have issues....just look into yourself...thats all i ask S: Don't try to deflect. I think you need therapy. (I'm not even joking about this.) L: i am not the one upset..haha S: Yes, you're obviously upset. L: you need help...hahah.....yes i am tormented S: I'm gonna take that with a grain of salt - considering who is it coming from...I'm praising Jesus right now for allowing me to see what I would've dealt with....I'm soo glad that I'm taking a break from online dating...SOO GLAD. L: ok.....u have totally lost it......are you alright? S: It's clear that I'm getting nowhere, so I really wish you luck with everything! L: you can push me away all you want but i am still here........... S: I have no hard feelings. Everything's crystal now. L: wow.......i am shaking my head...i didnt think you would be so uptight...but whatever....shit happens....all the best babe.....good luck...... Delete. And yes, I would like to Block too. Luckily, I haven't had to deal with any of these crazies in-person and there've only been a handful of them. Thank God. However, when I do get 'em...they're bad. Reeeally bad. Labels: adventures in online dating stood up cyber casual sex one-night stand crazy psycho people posted by Stephania at 10:10 PM |
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